Hi, I’m Jess!
I’m a somatic sex and relationship coach, a queer and ambiamorous human, and someone who has walked my own winding path toward deeper intimacy, self-connection, and belonging.
For many years I lived a life that looked “fine” from the outside but felt disconnected on the inside. I was moving through the world from my head, not my body, doing everything I was supposed to do, but feeling far from myself.
Somatic work changed that.
Slowly, it brought me home to my sensations, my boundaries, my desire, my softness, and my truth.
That journey continues to shape the work I offer today.
I now live on Kambuwal Country in Stanthorpe, Queensland, where I see local clients in person and support people online across Australia who are longing for a deeper, more embodied relationship with themselves and the people they love.
My Approach
I believe intimacy and transformation start in the body. The body holds our histories, our longings, our patterns, our fear, our pleasure, and our capacity for connection.
In our work we slow down and listen.
We bring awareness to your breath, sensations, boundaries, emotions, and needs. We make space for the parts of you that were never welcomed before.
My approach is:
somatic | grounded in the wisdom of your nervous system
trauma-aware | honouring pace, choice, and safety
relational | built on empathy, presence, communication, and attunement
consent-based | every step is collaborative and guided by your boundaries
experiential | not just talking about intimacy, but feeling into it
This work is gentle, empowering, and attuned to the pace your body and heart naturally move at.
The Somatica® Method
I am extensively trained in the Somatica® Method, a relational and experiential modality that helps people reconnect with their bodies, emotions, desires, and authentic expression.
Somatica® invites us to move away from performance or perfection and toward presence.
Instead of analysing intimacy from a distance, we explore how connection lives in your body, through sensation, curiosity, communication, boundaries, and honest expression.
Within this approach, we work with:
nervous-system awareness
emotional expression and attunement
attachment and relational patterns
embodied communication and consent
desire, play, confidence, and self-acceptance
I weave Somatica® with my training in somatic embodiment, energetic de-armouring, consent and boundary work, BDSM-informed somatics, and my ongoing Master of Counselling to create a holistic, grounded, and personalised coaching experience.
My Trainings & Specialisations
University of Southern Queensland
Masters of Counselling (Ongoing)
Somatica® Institute
Core & Advanced Somatic Sex and Relationship Coaching
Somatica® Institute
Couples Coaching Intensive
Somatica® Institute
Coaching BDSM Intensive
Institute of Somatic Sexology
Introduction to Embodied Counselling Certificate
Somatic Embodiment Academy
Somatic Embodiment
Training (Level 1)
Somagetic
Energetic De-Armouring Practitioner Training
Mischa Byruck
Beyond Consent Intensive
Who I work with
This work is for you if you are:
seeking deeper intimacy, sensuality, or connection
wanting to feel more grounded, alive, and embodied
navigating shame, numbness, or disconnection from your body and sexual self
exploring boundaries, desire, or communication
longing to understand your relational patterns
curious about conscious kink, ethical non-monogamy, or alternative relationship structures in a safe, grounded space
wanting support in opening or sustaining fulfilling relationships
Sessions are available in person in Stanthorpe, QLD, or online across Australia.
Let’s reignite your intimacy.
Start with a free 15-minute consult to see if my approach is a fit for you.