Your body holds
the answer
Here’s how we work together
to unlock it.
My Work
This isn’t just talk therapy.
This is lived experience.
Most people come to me having already done the work - the couples counselling, the dating books, the eye-gazing exercises. And yet something still feels off.
The missing piece is usually the body. Our deepest desires, our blocks, our authentic expression - they don’t just live in our heads. They live in our nervous systems, our breath, our skin. My work helps you get there.
Whether you’re craving more aliveness in your relationship, wanting to understand your erotic self more deeply, or finally ready to stop hiding parts of yourself - this is where we start.
| HOW WE WORK TOGETHER |
There are 3 ways to work with me
Group Workshops
Some things land differently in a room full of people doing the same courageous thing.
Past workshops have included Embodied Intimacy and Conscious Power Play. Future topics will span the full range of what I offer: desire mapping, authentic relating, consensual non-monogamy and more.
Workshops will be held in Stanthorpe, QLD or surrounding areas depending on interest levels. Dates are still being confirmed, so join the waitlist and you’ll hear about it first.
Private Coaching
This is the heart of my practice. Ongoing sessions that go at the pace your body and nervous system can actually integrate.
Sessions are experiential. We don’t just talk about intimacy, we practice relating, expressing, and feeling in real time, with someone genuinely attuned to you.
Individuals, couples, and all
relationship configurationsOnline or in person (Stanthorpe)
Based on the Somatica method
Starts with a free 15-minute consult
Couple Retreats
Reconnect or turn up the heat, with one of two private couple retreat options.
BDSMbodied: Conscious Power Play
ReMbodied: Reignite your intimacy (coming soon)
Enjoy daily workshops followed by evenings at the Granite Belt’s finest wineries. Includes 2 nights in a luxury lakeside villa outside Stanthorpe.
We can work on
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Self-Discovery & Desire
Reclaiming your erotic self from cultural noise, body shame, and a lifetime of performing. Finding out what you actually want in your body, not just your head.
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Sexual Identity & Expression
Exploring or affirming your gender or sexuality with someone who’s walked their own winding path. No labels required, unless that’s your thing. Authenticity is the only destination.
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Reigniting Spark & Passion
When love is still there but the erotic charge has gone quiet. Working with mismatched desire, stale scripts, and the slow drift that happens without anyone meaning it to.
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Kink, Fantasy & Taboo
Bringing the shadowy stuff into the light without shame or judgment. Unpacking what a fantasy means, negotiating desires with a partner, and stepping into your kinks with confidence.
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Authentic Relating
Learning to stay in connection with yourself while being in connection with others. Expressing your actual needs, and receiving someone else’s without shutting down.
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Dating & Early Intimacy
Navigating connection without the anxiety, performance, or second-guessing. Building confidence with consent conversations, boundaries and making the first move.
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Consensual Non-Monogamy & Relationship Design
Polyamory, relationship anarchy, monogamish, swinging, or something you haven’t named yet. Exploring what structure actually fits you, free of the assumption that there’s only one way.
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Conflict & Repair
Not fixing it, working through it. Finding the words for hard things, initiating repair without losing yourself, and building the kind of trust that can hold disagreement without breaking.
Common Questions
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Not at all. Many clients come simply because they want more. More aliveness, more connection, more pleasure. You don’t need a problem to do this work. Curiosity is enough.
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My training has been through independent and private institutions, including the Somatica Institute and the Institute of Somatic Sexology. I am currently completing a Masters of Counselling at the University of Southern Queensland, however I am not yet a registered therapist or counsellor. This means our sessions cannot yet be claimed through standard health insurance.
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Yes. My approach is trauma-aware throughout. I draw on polyvagal theory, somatic awareness, and Internal Family Systems to support clients who carry trauma in their bodies. That said, if you’re currently in acute crisis, therapy may be a more appropriate first step and I’m happy to discuss that openly with you.
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No. I follow the boundaries of the Somatica method. Clothing is always on in sessions, whether we’re meeting in person or online. All experiential work happens within clear, consensual, and fully clothed containers.
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Absolutely. I work with individuals, couples, and people in all relationship configurations, across the gender and sexuality spectrum. If you’re new to intimacy, navigating a sexual dysfunction, curious about non-monogamy, exploring your identity, or anything else, you’re welcome here.
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Yes! While my practice is now based in Queensland, Australia, I continue to work with international clients online. My online clients get the same results, and the time zones are workable with a bit of planning. Book a free 15-minute consult and we’ll figure it out.
“Every session with Jess is different because she meets me exactly where I’m at, at that particular moment… But at the core of every session, there is a deepening of my relationship to my own sexuality.
Romantically, I am more direct and empowered in my desire while also being able to both respect and express boundaries. Truly, I can say that working with Jess has changed my life for the better.”
— GABRIEL L., JECCA CLIENT
Ready to feel
thankful to be alive?
Start with a free 15-minute consult to see if my approach is right for you.